Dr. Mel Levine of All Kinds of Minds has excellent advice for teachers and parents trying to help a disorganized student. A common mistake, he says, is to nag and threaten. “You won’t always have me here to help you”, etc. The truth, says Levine, is that as adults we can almost always find someoneâ€”a spouse, friend, or colleagueâ€”to help us. The comment is in a video clip on this page. Scroll down to the sample video called “Feelings and Motivation”.